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Today, in addition to the snow, we also put up the Christmas tree and decorated it as a family. It was very nice to step back look out the window to see the snow falling and then watch the kids hang all of their favorite ornaments. A Hallmark moment indeed and I just sat back to take it all in. This is exactly why we moved here…..not that we couldn’t decorate the Christmas tree as a family in California. But, even with all these boxes and house disarray, we were able to slow down, take a pause and enjoy the time together. It didn’t matter if there were things to do. We are already slowing down and taking advantage of those times. I look forward to each one and many more.

…..Dan at aslowerpace

This is my first opportunity to get online since my last post and my internet connection is…..a…..very…..slow…..dialup…..connection. I was spoiled in California with a fast cable broadband connection. A slower pace really applies to everything out here — even the internet. And for those of you who know me as the tech geek that I am, you must be laughing at my having to deal with dial up. We’ll see how long this lasts.

A lot has happened since my last post. Sit back, grab a cup of coffee and read the update.

One of the hurdles we had to overcome was back in Nashville before we arrived in Louisville. A few years ago my wife had a pinched nerve that affected her arms and hands. It seems the several days of driving along with the same position for miles at a time aggravated it. Just short of our last stop outside of Nashville, she could no longer drive. We pulled over, checked into a local motel and rested. A long night’s sleep and a big breakfast didn’t help much and we only made it one exit. Time for plan “B” (which I had planned for, however, I was expecting a mechanical failure, not a human one). We unhitched the Uhaul from my old Suburban, dropped it onto my wife’s Suburban, crammed the dogs in and left my truck at a popular truck stop hoping the traffic would allow it to blend in for a few days until we could drive the 3 hours back to pick it up.

So there we were — all 8 of us and the Uhaul. Me, the wife, 3 kids, 2 dogs and 1 cat (and a partridge in a pear treeeeeee). We were able to barely make it into the Louisville area to drop off the trailer and dogs at a friend’s farm and then hustle to the property for the final walk through. Every thing was in order and the closing the next day went very smoothly and we were in the midst of the movers orchestrated chaos by noon. Almost the entire 53′ semi-truck trailer was unloaded and all that remained Saturday was the smaller shuttle truck, the unpacking of some boxes and the furniture assembly. I still had the issue of my truck though.

Step in a helping hand. One of the movers had some extra time, needed some holiday spending money and wanted to help us out so he joined me in the 3 hour ride down to Nashville to pick up my Suburban. It was very nice and interesting to hear the perspective of someone who had grown up in this area of the country. I enjoyed the company and what seemed like a 45 minute drive to Nashville really sucked on the way home as we both drove alone in each of the Suburbans the entire 3 hour drive back.

Dave — thanks for helping us out the way you did. I appreciate the favor and the new friendship. THANK YOU!

We also met one of our local neighbors who happens to have a little boy close to my son’s age. They played together as if they were old friends and are already looking forward to exploring the little creek together.

We are also finding our way around: to the nearby Wal-Mart where we have equipped all of us with much needed winter gear, to the local Kroger for all of our home cooked meal supplies, the Uhaul return place and the cheapest fill-er-up station.

This morning, we woke up to it snowing. The kids have seen snow from when we used to go up to the mountains but they have never actually seen it fall from the sky. It was fun to see them get all excited and worked up to play in it, spend the time to get all bundled up, run around and experience the newness of it, then realize how butt cold it was and decide to come back in. The dogs were the same way minus the bundling up part. I’m sure it might get old but right now we are just enjoying it. Acclimating hasn’t been as hard as I expected. Talk to me in a month though. Luckily, we only got 1 inch of snow and most of it is gone already.

On my way out to town this evening at dusk, I saw my first local deer — a handsome male (who survived hunting season) and two skittish does. Very cool!

It is late and I start my first day on the job tomorrow. Off to bed. In the meantime, here are a few interesting facts:

  • It takes me 6 minutes round trip to walk and get the mail from our mailbox.
  • I paid $1.58 a gallon for my last gas fill up.
  • Setting up a household from scratch is expensive (trash cans, toilet paper, wall hooks, plastic silverware compartment, paper towel holder thingy — geez!)

…..Dan at aslowerpace

Now that we have made it, I want to thank all those who had us in their prayers. We appreciate and are humbled that you would think and pray about us and for our safe journey. I can tell you it worked and acknowledge the power of prayer.

Thank you!

…..Dan at aslowerpace

We attained our goal of reaching Louisville, KY safe, on time and as a family. We are very tired but excited. We close on the property and move in tomorrow. We have transitioned from wrapping things up at our old house to travelling across the country to now a new beginning. We did a final walk through of the house and are still pinching ourselves. And the weather forecast for this Sunday is snow. What a nice time to sit together as a family, unpack boxes, hang a few Christmas decorations and watch the first snow from our new house. Although we have been preoccupied with the move this holiday season, it’s beginning to feel a lot like Christmas.

…..Dan at aslowerpace

Driving through the country, I started noticing things I don’t or haven’t seen in the population and land of California. For example, while driving in Oklahoma, I noticed what appeared to be a whisp of smoke on the horizon. What it ended up being was a gaggle of geese flying south for the winter…..so many, that from several miles away, it looked like smoke. Pretty damn cool if you ask me.

A few other things of note:

  • billions and billions of stars (not drowned out by light pollution)
  • occasional wildlife (deer, coyote, hawks)
  • wide expanses of open, nothingness

Some man made things I saw that you normally don’t see as well:

  • a drive in movie theater
  • a caboose
  • one pump corner gas station

…..Dan at aslowerpace

“We come here to remember those who were killed, those who survived and those changed forever.

May all who leave here know the impact of violence. May this memorial offer comfort, strength, peace, hope and serenity.”

Those words stand alone in this post. I will not dilute them with my experience. That will be saved for later. God bless all who were impacted that day.

www.oklahomacitynationalmemorial.org

…..Dan at aslowerpace

We are now in Elk City, OK. (by the way, the Holiday Inn here is nice and has some great ammenities — pool, hot tub, miniature golf, sauna, shuffleboard, etc and kids stay and eat free). The drive was interesting crossing the continental divide in New Mexico, dropping down from the mountains onto the mesas and then to the flat plains.

While driving across that great expanse, I learned that I could draft behind my wife’s Suburban and simultaneously watch the kids’ movie on the DVD entertainment system. If I tuned my radio to the same frequency as the FM modulator, I could even hear it all. I was getting entertained AND getting better mileage to boot!

Somewhere in Texas we crossed the halfway point. We are now closer to our new home in
Kentucky than our old one in California. Weather has been cooperative but very cold. We will have to acclimate.

I have been tracking mileage on both the Suburbans. Kinda interesting. Hers is a new 2003. Mine an old 1990 towing a fully loaded 4×8 Uhaul trailer. She is getting double the mileage although my trip average isn’t much lower than my normal mileage. I guess when the truck is
that large and inefficient there isn’t that much more you can do to hurt mileage. And gas prices have greatly varied. Highest is, of course, California where I paid $2.49 just before leaving. Of course, just across the border in Arizona it was $1.84. The lowest I have seen is $1.55 in Texas. Another benefit of leaving California.

Tomorrow it is my hope to stop and see the Oklahoma City Memorial (www.oklahomacitynationalmemorial.org) . It is a good educational opportunity for the kids as well as a time to offer respects and pay tribute. I expect it to be a touching experience.

Thanks again for all who have kept us in your thoughts and prayers. Our trip has been uneventful in a good way.

…..Dan at aslowerpace

We awoke to a beautiful Mojave desert sunrise. And California was finally in our rear view mirror. It was weird to leave California soil as we crossed the Colorado river into Arizona. And then the thought that at that very moment we were homeless. Not in the sense that everyone uses to describe the poor and destitute. But a family without a home. Usually when we have travelled like this for vacation, we had a home base to return to. And, while vacation was fun, it was always great to get back home. That won’t happen this time.

We met a couple with kids and pets in Seligman, Arizona outside the gas mart.They, too, were moving out of California and relocating their family to Flagstaff. An interesting parallel to our move. And they weren’t originally looking to leave CA but had visited Flagstaff and began contemplating it. Seems they hadn’t noticed the difference in life styles until they actually compared and contrasted them. Similar issues: pace of life, cost of living, time with kids, employment opportunities, values. Again, an interesting parallel. It got my wife and I wondering what the immigration/exodus rate is for California. If anyone has links to facts, data or articles, drop me an email.

More asphalt and miles ahead tomorrow. Thoughts come and go as I drive and only a few of them stick enough in my brain to make it to this blog. Too bad I can’t blog real time…..although that’d be scary.

…..Dan at aslowerpace

We’re now headed on our way to Kentucky. I have the Suburban air conditioning on. I am sweating from all the last minute work on the house. December just isn’t supposed to be 83F degrees. As I said before, I think this is California’s way of sticking it to us. I am gonna look at it as a gift…..as a nice path of good or at least tolerable weather all the way to Kentucky.

The last two days have been a blur. I remember something about boxes all around and movers coming and now — poof — we’re in a motel on the road. Luckily the pets are all able to stay in our room and we have internet access. We hit the road early tomorrow to make some decent progress to our goal: our family arriving safely at our new home.

Thank you all for your prayers. I even had a neighbor come by today to say a prayer with me — a very cool parting gift indeed. As the holidays arrive, I offer my prayers to you in return for a safe, joyous and rejuvenating season that focuses on the reason for the season.

Until my next internet access,
…..Dan at aslowerpace

And a big thank you to everyone who has helped us out during our last moments here. Thank you for the visits, thank you for the gifts of remembrance and, especially, thank you for your prayers.

And thank you, Dad, for helping me late last night!

…..Dan at aslowerpace